In response to many questions I get asked on how to properly address invitation envelopes, I have compiled a few scenarios to get you started. I will update this list periodically.
SCENARIO | OUTER ENVELOPE | INNER ENVELOPE (if applicable) |
Husband and Wife
With same last name |
Mr. and Mrs. Robert Williams | Mr. and Mrs. Williams |
Husband and Wife
With different last names |
Ms. Rachel Gordon (wife’s name above)
Mr. John Williams |
Ms. Gordon and Mr. Williams |
Husband and Wife
Wife has a professional title |
Dr. Rachel Gordon
Mr. John Williams |
Dr. Gordon
Mr. Williams |
Husband and Wife
With children |
Mr. and Mrs. John Williams
List the first name and last names of children here if an inner envelope does not apply |
Mr. and Mrs. Williams
Lisa, Harry, Robert (in order of age – oldest to youngest) |
Cohabiting Couple | Miss or Ms. Rachel Gordon
Mr. John Williams |
Ms. Gordon
Mr. Williams |
Single Woman | Miss or Ms. Rachel Gordon | Miss or Ms. Gordon |
Single Man | Mr. John Williams | Mr. Williams |
Single Woman and Guest | Miss or Ms. Rachel Gordon
List additional guest names as shown below if inner envelope does not apply. and Guest (if guest is unknown or Mr. Thomas Brussels (if name is known) |
Ms. Gordon
and Guest or Ms. Gordon Mr. Brussels (if name is known) |